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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 3:32 pm Post subject:

It's called Yelp and asking around.

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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 3:35 pm Post subject:

Maybe one day I'll get to visit your state. That would be fun. Especially if you have a beach wedding! I won't miss that for the world!

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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 3:36 pm Post subject:

7224 wrote:

Especially if you have a beach wedding! I won't miss that for the world!

I would.

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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 3:38 pm Post subject:

hahaha, I know...I'm always marrying you off! Thats so you can tell me how good or bad it is! =p

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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 3:45 pm Post subject:

I'm not worried about such things, really.

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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 3:49 pm Post subject:

I'm not worried, but I don't want to start a family in my 30's, and I want lots of time with my husband. Maybe for me it's something that crosses my mind now that I'm in my 20's. I don't know. I'm not desperate, I'm not bad looking, so I don't think it impossible for me to follow that dream either. That and, I'm a very good catch. Very Happy

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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 4:02 pm Post subject:

Considering I'm not expecting to finish school until my thirties, I'm not even going to give it another thought till then, if ever.

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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 4:17 pm Post subject:

True, but by then you may have a significant other in your 30's! Who will be with you thru medical school and support all that you are about. Maybe she will be younger? Have herself all together so she will be strong in her love, care and support of you. I hope that for me anyway. I have a good chance to meet a smart doctor as yourself!

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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 6:16 pm Post subject:

Yeah someone cooking meals while I'm at med school sounds fantastic actually.

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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 7:40 pm Post subject:

I'm sure you can have anything you want. Smile

EDIT: So, who I thought didn't want me sent me an email yesterday that I never saw because I don't check them daily. So I get a phone call. /=
The guy I saw tonight is nice, but the guy I had a date with last night is a lot more interesting and fun. Smile

Although it would be nice to see how it would go with who sent me an email, I don't want to miss this chance with the guy from last night, so that's that! Not even saying that anything will come of he and I, but at least I'm down to one guy and not 3. =)

Time to have some fun! No work for me this whole week at that crap job at the grocery store!

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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 4:19 am Post subject:

7224 wrote:

I'm sure you can have anything you want. Smile

I could cut the middleman (middlewoman?) and just live next to a diner and bar, I suppose.

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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 5:11 am Post subject:

7224 wrote:

I'm sure you can have anything you want. Smile

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Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 9:56 am Post subject:

Had a good date yesterday. We are so alike, ..it's wonderfuly weird ahaha

I wonder how many people are fortunate enough to have know someone like that Cool

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Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 1:05 pm Post subject:

7224 wrote:

You know lots of good places where you live! Lucky you!

ur a girl so i feel like u should kno this but since ur on here talking to us druids, i'll respond.

y r u getting stressed out. if u've been halfway decent looking ur whole life....and not single for very long anyway, i dont see y u should have to feel any bit of stress or worry about men being attracted to u and wanting to pursue something.

so 3 guys are interested in u. u probably can find three dogs inerested in u by walking from one side of a mall to another.

it's not hard. so...wut are u doing here. y are u worried. wat do u want to hear. that men arent the sociopathic pricks that u recently had to deem them as a means to protect urself? there are good people and bad people..yes, bad people do exist even if they dont know it.

with so much foot in my mouth i wont be surprised if i get a temp ban or a perma one but wat are u doing here lil miss amelie soup? have we really helped u or have we massaged a sore "she"-go becausei cant imagine we've told u anything u didnt kno already. if someone got sick of u it doesnt necessarily mean u did something wrong.

i cant help but think that there is more to your doing this than simply being unsure. not only that but fuck...u have a father. im sure ravi can attest to the fucking psycho's men deal with in los angeles....seriously...psycho's.

i barely have any dating experience and wut i do have is miniscule, depressing, and sad with a few standout performances but nothing award winning. i mean shit there's nothing i can tell u that ur girlfriends can tell u better and ur dad isnt hating on u....u should be good. is it compettition? too scared to ask for advice from ur girls without looking stupidd?

ur 20 right? i'm only a few years older than u but if n e of those bitches raise an eyebrow and shun u for asking a question then they aren't ur friends

im not upset per se but...i am curious. thats pretty much it. im curious. and since ur reaping the benefits of free advice from males, it wouldnt hurt if u shared some insights of ur own to help US out.

i'm taking a nice long break from the dating scene....but i'm sure there are at least 2 people here that would benefit from Y O U R insights.

cause we've told u a lot of things but it seems like....ur stuck on some relatively painless obstacles..... O circles O

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Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 1:32 pm Post subject:

Lyonardo wrote:

We are so alike, ..it's wonderfuly weird ahaha

I wonder how many people are fortunate enough to have know someone like that Cool

Oppostites are nice too! My parents are. Going strong for over 30 yrs. now!

The guy I'm seeing now is nothing like me. lol.
I like that though, because I'm so excited about what he is bringing to our friendship. Like, the other day he got me on a roof. I have vertigo and am so afraid of heights, but yet I trusted him that it would be okay..and it was! Now I'm not afraid!

But yes, we do have some things in common...we both love our own space!

Have fun Lyonardo! It's what it's about!

@londinio...I'm not stressed out! I'm most trying to make some conversation! I like to talk and just have some fun. Anyway... I do have a dad, yes..and he doesn't like anyone for me..lol. When on base, he would chase all the guys away that would like to just say "hi" or just be friendly. He would say he's a guy, he knows what guys are about at my age. lol...anyway, this is sorta new to me because I am single for almost a year and really had NO interest in ANY guy who ever was close enough to be in my company. What my problems are are that I'm 20, but don't really mesh well with guys that are my age. They seem to still be doing the things my little brother did at 13 and he's now 15 and even he still isn't into some things some guys still are around here. I don't smoke, don't drink to get drunk, am not old enough for clubs am a virgin and plan on staying so till I am with the one I am to be with for a future..so, who wants to date me? It's pretty unreasonable to do so when I'm not interested in the things some guys are, or who I have met in these short 20 yrs. However I had dates and bfs long term, (past 6 months and up to over a yr.) I had always felt like not the age to get so serious about a guy, and that is what usually does happen.

Older guys are about more in a relationship, I think?

I can count those I've dated to be somewhat an experience, but not quite. I don't know what a serious one would be like, because I've never met someone to allow myself to be so serious about so far. I havent had the chance to know 3 guys at the same time either who are... older, who are smart, who have a plan, live on their own, and are just growing up? or they are what I'm not used to.

I'm used to boys, who live at home, don't drive..hell, some have not had jobs yet even. Plus, I'm more about the quiet of things. I like museums, and book stores, conversations and picnics, kite flying, cooking, baking...gaming. Lol, I can just see me with a film major gaming and showing him my collection of masks I make from paper, or having him over for my chicken and broccoli alfredo, while showing off my vintage aprons that I collect..meanwhile whats he want with someone like me?
I go to school full time, work 4 jobs, hardly have time to even get to know someone. I guess I'm afraid, fear is a big thing to me I guess? That and I've not met nice guys...but I still don't give up that hope that one day I will. I guess I should do like Ravi has suggested..don't worry and enjoy my free food and iced teas..and if he does like me for some reason, I'll know it and it will be nice. I'm just afraid. I guess fear is an obstacle for me.

EDIT:
I can't speak for other females or what they would like in a relationship, because if I go by my girlfriends, they hop around and are very happy doing so. They are having fun and with nothing serious..however, a few are and are yrs. into things...to soon for me though to already be in a 3yr. thing at 20. ugh. But..Since a guy will know my intentions are or aren't, I'd like him to just keep in mind those things and not push or hurry me along.. I think I need a patient man. lol, are they hard to find or something?

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