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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 12:53 pm    Post subject:  

So some months back I thought I had someone in my life, but turned out he didn't want me..so now I'm back in that mode where I'm single in my mind but not so much in my heart...but I know I have to lose some feelings. So my situation is pretty silly because now I have a few dates lined up, and now I don't know really what to do. I like 2 guys. lol.

I hate when this happens.

How do you choose without hurting someone?

Maybe not choose at all, but to be honest after who left me left, I am just too alone and really would love a guy in my life.

Sigh... I don't think dating is hell, but it's more confusing when it's now raining men, and you just were never open this past year to anyone but one guy.

Has anyone ever dated 2 people at the same time? Well, I don't really see it as dating as much as I'm hanging out and it's possible to really like one of them for something more.
It would be nice to have someone special.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 1:22 pm    Post subject:  

no...i havent dated 2....and i turned down the opportunity. but....life in general is this constantly progressing thing...

just flow with it.....if you have to say no....say nothing...if you have to say yes, make it heard.

dont over complicate it..unless that's what u want.

in other words go w/ the flow

u have options explore em ur young Cool
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:06 pm    Post subject:  

True, I'm just 20..the hell am I thinking so hard about this for!

I guess it was just nice to feel like someone wanted me and thought so much of me at one time, ya know? It was a feeling of contentment.

Anyway, I don't think I'll break my record for one whole year being single. That would be September.

I am the ONLY single girl in my crowd. It's getting old. Rolling Eyes

Thank you for your advise. Smile

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:14 pm    Post subject:  

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Has anyone ever dated 2 people at the same time?
Yeah, but I'm quick to notice that I only really have feelings for one.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:14 pm    Post subject:  

Yeah, I hope that happens for me too.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:16 pm    Post subject:  

7224 wrote:
True, I'm just 20..the hell am I thinking so hard about this for!

I guess it was just nice to feel like someone wanted me and thought so much of me at one time, ya know? It was a feeling of contentment.

Anyway, I don't think I'll break my record for one whole year being single. That would be September.

I am the ONLY single girl in my crowd. It's getting old. Rolling Eyes

Thank you for your advise. Smile


lol. hard to be single. that's rich
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:20 pm    Post subject:  

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Yeah, I hope that happens for me too.
I wish it didn't with me hahaha

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:20 pm    Post subject:  

It's just been so boring. Everyone is busy with their boyfriends/girlfriends..meanwhile, I'm friendzoning guys left and right because I thought someone really liked me.

Now that he doesn't, I'm back out in the field...lol. But I didn't think there would be guys calling at the same time.

@Ravi...what?

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:28 pm    Post subject:  

I've never dated two people at the same time.


I usually only get to the dating stage If I really feel like we connected and decide if is someting worth pursuing.

I know girls love the chase aspect of things, but one never knows If it really means something more, or if it's just an ego driven thingy to make them feel better about themselves.

I don't know If I'm a good judge of character, but fortunately for the most part the girl's I've chosen to pursue were worth it Cool

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:34 pm    Post subject:  

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..meanwhile, I'm friendzoning guys left and right because I thought someone really liked me.
Huh. Must be a special guy.
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@Ravi...what?
I don't like to limit my options.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:35 pm    Post subject:  

Well, I don't know if I have feelings for someone until I spend time with them. Maybe here we call it dating, but maybe its just hanging out until you are only with one person.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:36 pm    Post subject:  

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Well, I don't know if I have feelings for someone until I spend time with them.
Well, yeah. With someone I went out on a date with recently, I realized she was cute until she opened her mouth. So that was that.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:40 pm    Post subject:  

I'm just overwhelmed. I also made the mistake of inviting 3 guys who have asked me out...this is guy # 3 tonight. Guess I'll have to wait a bit before I ask one out! My dad is lol'ing.

This is true too, I mean..I've met some cute guys, but they have DUI's, no car, no money, no future, no ambitions, plans, goals...etc. Would be nice to meet a guy who has a plan..yep, that would be nice.

I don't like to limit mine either. Lets have burgers one day!

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 2:45 pm    Post subject:  

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I'm just overwhelmed. I also made the mistake of inviting 3 guys who have asked me out...this is guy # 3 tonight. Guess I'll have to wait a bit before I ask one out! My dad is lol'ing.
Just don't worry about it and enjoy the free burgers and iced tea.
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Lets have burgers one day!
I know of a good place. In LA.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 3:30 pm    Post subject:  

You know lots of good places where you live! Lucky you!

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